Episodes

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Zach Brittle, host of Marriage Therapy Radio, to talk about why good relationships fall apart even when both people care deeply about each other. We get into why two-thirds of relationship conflicts never resolve, how negativity quietly poisons even strong marriages, and why working on yourself is the single best investment you can make in your relationship. If you’ve ever brushed past red flags while dating and wondered if they’d catch up w...

I spend most of my time answering questions about dating and relationships. But in this second Ask Me Anything episode of the Love U Podcast, I address: How I stay hopeful when things get hard, whether I can cook, my bucket list, what I love doing with my kids, how my business and beliefs have evolved over 23 years. I also open up about my wife’s health journey and share the meaning of life. Yeah, it’s a lot. If you enjoyed the first AMA, I hope you like this one, too. 🔥 Take my quiz to find o...

You want a partner who fits into your world. That makes sense. But if you’re dating a highly successful man with friends, family, and passions, he has a full life too. In this episode, I talk about why “power couples” sound great in theory but often fall apart in practice, and why one person usually ends up feeling like they come second. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz....

You want love, but you also have a full life, a career, friendships, and a packed schedule. And somehow, a relationship keeps getting pushed to the back burner. In this episode, I talk about why so many successful women unintentionally leave no room for love in their lives, and what it actually takes to start making space for it again. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanmarckatz.co...

You don’t want to get hurt. You don’t want to waste time. You scan his profile for red flags and ask him important questions up front - and, sure enough, no men are getting through your filter. Congratulations? In this episode, I explain the difference between fear-based behavior and healthy boundaries, and why over-screening men can backfire. If dating has felt frustrating, this episode will help you shift your approach and start seeing better results. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve be...

In this episode, I break down why high-achieving men often approach relationships with an “acquisition mindset,” why they come on strong in the beginning, and why their effort can fade just as quickly. If you’ve ever been swept off your feet by a wealthy guy, only to discover your relationship wasn’t as strong as your courtship, this episode will help you understand and avoid getting hurt again. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.c...

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I share a coaching story about a woman who broke up with a good boyfriend over an unspoken expectation. Fortunately, she was able to repair things but their disagreement revealed a lot about how her anxiety has dictated many of her past relationship interactions. I’m not at all defending bad behavior; I’m reminding you that the good men who take on the job of “boyfriend” want to please you but they can’t always do things the way you want. If you’ve ever be...

Are you rejecting yourself before men ever get the chance? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I explain how limiting beliefs can sabotage you. “I’m a single mom.” “I’m divorced.” “I’m too old.” These thoughts are partially true but they’re not universally true. Dating isn’t about convincing everyone to want you; it’s about finding one man who loves you unconditionally.. Through real-world examples, I explain why limiting yourself is self-defeating and believing in yourself is the secre...

I spend most of my time answering questions about dating and relationships. Today, in this special Ask Me Anything episode of the Love U Podcast, I answer personal questions about my biggest fears, my childhood, my unrealized dreams, and a bunch of questions about being Jewish. If you’ve ever wondered who I am outside of “man who gives dating advice,” this episode shares things that only my wife knows about me. Hope you enjoy. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong ...

That’s a provocative statement and I don’t literally mean it. However, I have noticed that women and men tend to experience rejection differently. Men initiate more. They get ignored more. They understand that if they don’t reach out and make a move, nothing’s going to happen. Women do, indeed, get painfully ghosted but because it happens less often than men’s daily rejection, it tends to hit women harder - and have a greater effect. The episode digs into how sheer exposure shapes the way we ...

You slept with him. You got attached. Now you’re stuck trying to “make it work” – even when it’s clearly not working. In this Love U Podcast, I explain why smart successful women get trapped in long-term relationships with men who never earned their commitment. If you’ve ever felt like the relationship depends entirely on your effort, this episode is your reminder that love shouldn’t be this hard. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz...

Men don’t like being directed or corrected. I’m no different. The one thing I do that is different than most men is that I apologize - even when I don’t think I’m wrong. In this Love U Podcast, I share one important skill that makes marriage work and teach you how to bring that same awareness into your own love life. When you lead with empathy and choose to stay connected over being right, you can have an amazing relationship. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wron...

You loved him and tried everything but the relationship still fell apart. Now he’s back, promising he’s changed, saying this time will be different. Yeah, right. In this Love U Podcast, I explain why giving second (and third and fourth) chances to men rarely leads to lasting love. If you have a history of holding onto hope for too long, this episode will help you move forward. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a c...

Kate had four FaceTime dates scheduled in one weekend. All four men flaked. She was demoralized and turned to me to help reframe this latest disappointment. In this Love U Podcast, I share the healthiest way to react to the depersonalized nature of online dating and see things from a confident, powerful perspective. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by the dating scene, this episode will help you reset your expectations and keep you motivated to persevere. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve b...

The world feels like it’s falling apart: inflation, politics, AI, you name it. But here’s the truth: while you can’t fix the chaos out there, you can build peace and love in your own life. In this Love U Podcast, I share the inspiring stories of Debra and Jackie — two smart, successful women who stopped doom-scrolling and started focusing on what they could control. Their reward? One got a new boyfriend. The other has a new fiancé. If you’re tired of anxiety and ready for love, this episode wi...

What does science say about why we love the way we do? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Justin Garcia, Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal, to explore the real forces shaping modern relationships. We talk about how hookup culture has evolved, why Gen Z craves connection more than casual sex, and how dating apps and AI are changing human instincts. If you’ve ever felt like something about dating today feels off, this conversation...

“There are no good men online.” I know it feels that way. It’s just not the full picture. In this Love U Podcast, I explain how false assumptions are causing you to eliminate great guys before you even get to know them. You’ll learn how dating apps train you to swipe too fast, why minor flaws don’t mean incompatibility, and what happens when you start giving the “6’s” a chance. If you’re tired of feeling frustrated, this episode will help you shift your mindset and start making better choices i...

Living apart together sounds like a dream. A committed couple living in separate spaces. More freedom and fewer fights. What could be better? In this Love U Podcast, you’ll learn why this setup appeals to women who’ve been hurt before, how it can feel safer than marriage, and what you might be giving up without realizing it. If you’ve ever thought about having something like a marriage – without the marriage part – this episode casts a few doubts about whether this is ideal as it seems. 🔥 Take ...

In this episode, I explain why anxiety is your body’s way of telling you something’s off. Whether you’re walking on eggshells with a new guy or constantly overthinking your partner’s mixed signals, that tension isn’t “normal.” It’s a red flag. You’ll learn the difference between healthy excitement and relationship anxiety, how to know whether the problem is him or you, and what a calm, secure relationship actually feels like. If you’re tired of mistaking butterflies for love (they’re not!), this...

Have you ever felt blindsided by a guy who seemed perfect for the first few weeks? He was flirty, attentive, and made you feel special…until you realized all he really wanted was sex. In this Love U Podcast, I’ll show you how to tell the difference between a man who’s looking for a hookup, a girlfriend, or a future wife. You’ll learn why their early behavior is nearly indistinguishable and how to stop mistaking chemistry for compatibility. If you’re tired of confusing short-term courtship with ...

This episode is personal, because it has to be. But what I really learned in 2025 isn’t just about me. It’s about what happens to people when the world changes faster than our values, our nervous systems, and our expectations can keep up. These eight things are my experience in 2025 but they’re also reflections of the moment we’re all living in. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz 💖 Book a call with Evan: https://www.evanma...

What happens when you go from burned out on dating to happily married? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I catch up with Shivani, a former Love U client with a PhD in computer science who once believed there were no good men left. We talk about how she overcame cultural pressures, rejection, and her own limiting beliefs to find a husband. If you’ve ever felt like giving up on love, this story will inspire you to keep going. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wron...

This week, I coach Michelle, an independent woman in her early 50s who keeps committing too quickly before discovering the guy isn’t a long-term fit. Together, we break down why early chemistry can blind you, and how dating like a CEO changes everything. If you’ve been treating men like your boyfriend before he’s earned the right to that title, this episode will reset how you date forever. 🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz...

In this Love U Podcast, I talk with Mo Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer at Google and author of Solve for Happy. We dig into why endless choice creates confusion and how most daters misunderstand their own patterns. Mo shares his personal journey through marriage, loss, midlife dating, and a recent separation, and explains how those experiences inspired Emma.love, his new AI project built to help people understand themselves before choosing a partner. 🌟 Join the Extraordinary Love Series: ...