Episodes

Ever found yourself overanalyzing a guy’s mixed signals, wondering if he’s truly interested—or just keeping you around? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down six clear signs that show when a man is genuinely into you. From prioritizing time together to showing affection and talking about the future, these are the non-negotiable actions that separate relationship-ready men from time-wasters. You’ll also learn why consistency matters more than chemistry and how to stop making excuses...

Is it really possible to find love after 40—especially after divorce, disability, and a history of toxic relationships? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with my former client Teresa, who opens up about her journey from rock bottom to happily married. We cover how she overcame online dating overwhelm, rebuilt her confidence, and used emotional intelligence to choose the right partner—despite some shocking early challenges (like her now-husband’s surprise baby news). If you’ve eve...

Are today’s men too passive—or have women simply become too proactive? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down the modern dating dilemma, where ambitious women feel like they have to chase men just to keep their attention. I’ll explain why this dynamic leaves women exhausted and unfulfilled—and why leaning into your feminine energy can actually attract the kind of confident, proactive partner you want. If you’ve ever wondered whether mirroring works, or if “nice guys” can still step ...

Struggling with dating dynamics and feeling like you’re giving more than you get? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz sits down with relationship experts Tarah and EJ Kerwin to break down why so many women overfunction in relationships and how to shift the dynamic. Discover the key to emotional safety, effective communication, and choosing a partner who truly sees, hears, and understands you. Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship, these insights will...

Does having sex too soon affect how a man sees you? In this Love U Podcast, I explore why timing matters and how it can shape the course of a relationship. You’ll gain insight into how men think about sex, why patience can deepen connection, and how setting boundaries can shift the dynamic. Whether you’re navigating early dating or wondering where you stand, this episode dives into intimacy, attraction, and long-term compatibility. Tune in now! 🌟Join the free workshop “Be the CEO of Your Love L...

Why do some relationships fizzle out after a few months? And how can a shift in mindset lead to lasting love? In this episode, former client Rachel shares her journey from short-term connections to a secure, fulfilling relationship—without changing who she is. Discover why character matters more than chemistry, how to spot a secure partner, and how pacing emotional intimacy can help you date with confidence. If you’re ready to break free from frustrating dating patterns and connect with someone ...

Marni is a close friend, a high integrity human being, and one of the best I know at navigating change and radically reinventing your life. She went from being a high-paid dating coach to living a life more aligned with her values - leaving Los Angeles for a small ski town in Colorado - taking less money but finding more peace and happiness on the way. If you’re questioning a lot of things in life, her new book, “Your Radical Living Challenge,” may be the breakthrough you need. 🌟Join the Love U...

Sometimes, attraction disappears in an instant—but is the ick a real dealbreaker or just a reflex? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down why women experience the ick more than men, the psychology behind these sudden turn-offs, and whether they’re actually keeping you from a great relationship. From minor quirks to social conditioning, I explore what triggers the ick, why genuine interest is often mistaken for a turn-off, and how to distinguish between superficial dealbreakers and t...

Are dating apps failing you? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule, about why so many singles feel burned out on modern dating. We explore the pitfalls of swiping culture, the power of matchmaking, and why dating is a skill you can (and should) learn. Adam also shares insights on Three Day Rule’s exclusive $1M matchmaking experience and how personalized coaching can transform your love life. If you’re frustrated with dating and looking for a...

In today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth of “love on demand” to the dangers of playing relationship chicken, we explore how dating has become more about strategy than sincerity—and why breakin...

What do you do when he’s moving too fast or too slow? In this Love U Podcast, I’ll teach you how to slow him down, speed things up, and set boundaries that make dating feel easy. From avoiding blind dates with strangers to using FaceTime as your first date, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you find a man who’s ready to build trust and connection. If you’re tired of endless texting and mixed signals, this episode is for you! 🌟Join the Love U Community: https://www.evanmarckat...

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Aleeza Ben Shalom, a world-renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and author. Aleeza shares her journey into matchmaking, insights on aligning values in relationships, and the importance of intentionality in dating. We discuss the challenges of modern dating, how to approach relationships with clarity, and her advice for building a love that lasts. If you're ready to navigate dating with a fresh perspective, this episode is packed with practical wi...

Are your dating habits holding you back? In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a woman stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling relationships, and reveal how to identify and break bad dating habits. Learn why settling doesn’t work, how to embrace your worth, and how aiming higher can transform your love life. If you’re ready for something better, this episode is a must-listen. 🌟Join the FREE 5-Day Challenge: Rediscover Your Confidence and Take Charge of Your Love Life: https://www.evanmarckatz.c...

In this emergency episode of the Love U Podcast, I share my experience facing wildfires that threatened my home and family. From managing chaos to working as a team with my wife, this crisis reinforced the importance of love, communication, and clarity. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating challenges together. 🌟Join the FREE 5-Day Challenge: Rediscover Your Confidence and Take Charge of Your Love Life: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/challenge 📚 Take my mini-course to raise your relationsh...

Anxious and avoidant attachment styles may seem like opposites, but they share surprising traits that can hold you back in love. In this episode, I uncover what these patterns have in common and how they impact relationships in ways you might not expect. If fear or frustration has been getting in the way of your happiness, you don’t want to miss this. 🌟Join the FREE 5-Day Challenge: Rediscover Your Confidence and Take Charge of Your Love Life: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/challenge 🔥 Take my q...

Are you unsure about your attraction to the man you’re dating? In this Love U Podcast episode, I delve into how to navigate that uncertain feeling, distinguish between negative and neutral attraction, and evaluate whether a connection has the potential to grow. I share practical strategies for assessing comfort, fun, and attraction on early dates, and offer permission to say no when the chemistry just isn’t there. If you’ve ever wondered whether to give a guy another chance or move on, this epis...

Are dating, relationships, and marriage a thing of the past? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, my friend, Carol, and I discuss the cultural shifts impacting modern love. We explore why so many people are opting out of dating, whether online dating is making things harder, and how societal expectations around gender roles and attraction play into the challenges of finding a lasting relationship. Plus, we share practical advice for staying open, overcoming limiting beliefs, and taking contro...

Do you spend too much time in your head overthinking your relationship? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I explore the two most common types of overthinking in relationships: anxious attachment and analyzing failing relationships to death. I share why overthinking happens, how it sabotages your happiness, and the tough questions you need to ask yourself to gain clarity. Whether you’re stuck in an unsatisfying relationship or constantly second-guessing a good one, this episode offers practi...

Are you really being ghosted—or are you misreading the situation? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I unpack the nuances of ghosting, explore what it really means, and challenge common misconceptions. From dating app conversations that fizzle to serious relationships that abruptly end, I delve into how to differentiate between typical dating behavior and true ghosting. Plus, I offer insights on how to respond when someone comes back after disappearing. If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or...

Sometimes, the best choice is to prioritize yourself over a relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I explore six reasons why you might choose self-focus over dating, whether for personal growth, independence, or emotional well-being. Embracing time alone can help you rediscover what you truly want and regain clarity. If you’re ready to navigate the balance between independence and connection, this episode is a must-listen. 📚 Take my mini-course to raise your relationship standards: https://www.e...

What is masculine energy, and why do women need from the men their relationships? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, Carol and I unpack the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies, sharing how they complement each other to create stronger, healthier partnerships. We explore the challenges of shifting gender roles, why men and women often struggle to find balance, and how understanding this can help you connect on a deeper level. Tune in for personal stories from our marriages, stay for t...

In the early stages of dating, taking things slow can make all the difference. In this Love U Podcast, I reveal the best practices for dating during the first month, from pacing emotional intimacy to setting boundaries that protect your self-worth. Discover how to keep things balanced, avoid common pitfalls, and see if he has genuine relationship potential over the first four to six weeks. This episode provides a roadmap to confidently navigating the early dating phase without rushing into commi...

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Have you ever found yourself fixating on someone you barely know, building a fantasy that leads to disappointment? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I share how to break free from this cycle. I discuss the reasons why obsessing over someone too soon can be emotionally harmful and offer six practical steps to regain your focus and self-worth. Learn to challenge your thoughts, set boundaries, and imagine a future centered on your goals, not just a relationship. By reframing your approach to d...